Inside the Beehive
It is no longer news that 2015 is gone. We are in a new year and we must change quite a number of things.
When it comes to relationships let us be more careful this year. The mistakes we made in the previous year should not be given space this time.
For instance someone may have spent the whole of last year dating a married man or woman without knowing. This is wrong and it should not be carried on into the new year. You can tell if your boy friend or girl friend is married. It does not require rocket science to discover this.
Lets imagine that you have finally met the man or woman of your dreams. Then all of a sudden his or her spouse is calling you accusing you of trying to destroy their marriage.
Your dreamboat sails out of your life just like that. Unfortunately, and if you are not careful you could get caught in a very bad situation and never see it coming.
Now how do you know if your prince or princess charming is already taken?
When we fall in love we even fail to notice obvious signs. Be inquisitive and watch for the obvious signs. Sometimes the wedding ring should clear up your doubts right away but this is not a guarantee. Assuming the person is smart enough to take his or her ring off, though, there may still be a tan line on the ring finger.
What about the pictures of that woman in his wallet or the photo of that man on her desk? Obvious clues should raise legitimate concerns, and you should ask about them and maybe do some investigating.
Strange behaviours while on date can also arouse suspicion. If your date’s cell phone rings at the restaurant and he or she has to urgently flee your table to answer it, you may be tempted to wonder why. Give in to that temptation.
It could be an important work call, but then again, it could be his or her spouse, and the latter possibility becomes increasingly plausible if it seems to happen time and time again. You also should think it strange if he or she sees someone and tries to avoid them.
For ladies who happen to date married men unknowingly the following signs can help you know that he is already married: First of all he won’t let you meet his children. There is a time when it’s too soon to let your children meet a new partner.
But if he’s keeping his kids away from you, there is a chance he is married. Secondly such guys fall off the grid frequently. If you can’t get hold of your guy for long stretches of time (more than one day), chances are he is with his family and he can’t return your call or text.
Lastly he can’t spend holidays or special events with you. Married men can’t get away from their wives or families to spend public holidays with you. Nor will you be invited to special events in his life. That is reserved for his spouse. Don’t say that I didn’t warn you