Written by Administrator Friday, 16 July 2010 11:35
Anastacia
Bugolobi
Dear Anastacia,
Before doing anything, take note of the following, Ten years is a lot of years to gamble with! When you have an extra marital relationship, your conscience will become numb.
Your husband and marriage will become less and less important. And you'll want a divorce. These thinks happen slowly.
But they eventually happen to women/men who think the way you're currently thinking.
History repeats itself. Man keeps re-writing history.
If you skip out of your 10 year marriage because you're not getting enough attention and enough sex, you won't be the first to do this.
Sooner or later you will lose the things most importance to you in the long run.(marriage and family).
Let's take a look at the men scrambling for your attention.
Are they married? If so, how much good are they to their wives?
Men are generally good and sweet to women outside possibly because they want to be in their good books and get something from her.
On the other hand, many of those same men are hash and inconsiderate to their own wives.
They're sweet to you now because they seek what you have. Once they've got it, they may not be that sweet.
If you doubt wha I say, ask their wives.
Painful, right?
Good men are hard to find. You're lucky to have a good husband.
If the problem is his apathy and lack of interest in sex, it's possible to straighten that out. Work at it.
What should you do?
First, don't throw your marriage away. Communicate and work on the sex thing, and try to ask yourself these questions,
Is he having problems at work? Is he sick and tired of something? Is it something you're doing that is turning him off? At what point exactly did he become apathetic? Did something happen to him? Try to find the root cause of all this.
A decade is a lot of investment. I think you should share your fears and concerns with your husband. Talk to him heart to heart.
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