While in His workshop the creator made sure that man gets two eyes, two nipples, two hands and two legs, two kidneys, two lungs but one heart. The biggest question orbiting anyone's mind is why the biological architect chose to give man one heart.

You may have scratched the ground in search for the answer but the fact remains that you have not reached the warmth of the correct answer. Fine, we can all tell why God created two people Adam and Eve; company and procreation. Then why did He give you one heart?

The truth is that God created each man with two hearts; one heart is placed in you and the other in someone else of the opposite sex.

Therefore it's every one's duty to search for the person who received your second heart; the man or woman of your dreams. That fictitious person who has no label for easy identification but we are convinced that he or she exists and one day you will meet him or her. I have been told that with prayer and patience you can finally land onto that person.

Most women spend their youthful days on knees waiting for Mr. Right to show up and in the process someone sweeps them off the ground up to the altar to exchange marriage vows before the man of God in the presence of family and friends.

Some are not quite sure whether this is the long awaited stranger with their second sets of the hearts. It turns out to be a kind of trial and error circus. Some marriages succeeded while other develop cracks and break with a lot of time wasted.

Another big question now shows up: How does one identify the man or woman of his dreams? It's then very simple. The naked truth is that the so called man or woman of your dreams does not exist.

In life you will meet people you love but they don't love you. There are those you don't love but they have imaginable love for you. And in very rare situations those you love and they also love you back. If you are not chanced with such a coincidence of meeting someone you love and he or she loves you back then what do you do?  

To love or to be loved is a gift from God. But the rule of the game is simple; if you can't get what you love then love what you have.

Having searched heaven and earth for the person you love and failed to find him or her then love those you have- those who love you. Sometimes it's risky to marry the person you love but it is safer to marry the person who loves you. There is a very little assignment here; learning to love those who love you.

 True love is like a seed, it's sowed so that it can germinate and finally blossom into a plant. All that is a process. Love grows with time even where it was not expected. You only need to master the art of blending patience, persistence and good character.

Frankly speaking people may even fall in love after getting married. It only requires a free and positive mind that accepts people and that's ready to learn loving people. Otherwise life gets so complex if you are not ready to adjust the so many rules you have set.

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