The desire to make things happen rather than seeing them happen makes men a distinctive section of human beings. Real men won't sit back and wait for results instead they make results.

Unlike the hyenas that feed on the lion's catch men haunt their own prey. Actually experienced hunters know that real hunting involves celebrating results after a strenuous struggle and a big catch. No hunter would love to find a dead animal on his expedition and he will not take home the carcass.

As modernity continues to turn pages men get more perplexed than ever before. Simply imagine a scenario where if the sun doesn't go to the west, the West goes to the sun in the name of 'the West can't wait'. It's fine you have been inspired that if you want something go out and get it. But what about a case where the rule of the day says wait until the cows return home?

Men are said to have the privilege to ask women for a hand in marriage. That singular opportunity when women receive a proposal for marriage from a handsome man during a dinner for two. Now women can't wait. If you don't propose they will do it. If you don't take her out, she will suggest taking you out.

They will always take the first step if men seem to be slow or reserved. Men who won't tell women that they love them stand the chance of being told by the very women how much they love them. May be this is part of a strategy to break traditional boundaries in a modern society.-The women emancipation thing.

When women play hard to get, men get the assignment to make them easy to get. And when they play easy to get men will be denied their duty and will have nothing to do.

This is what women hate.

Hide and seek is part of the process in creating a relationship. It attaches value to the catch. Men always treasure what they fought for rather than what appeared by chance. They love to sit back and remember the struggle they went through to acquire the most important persons in their lives.

It is some kind of personal pride over such an achievement. If it is a game the winner loves to take a genuine credit for the win. If a woman took the first step it would not only worry the man but also lower his esteem and confidence.

He would feel not man enough. Actually he won't allow being called a winner in a game he has not played. Society has also taught men to be careful with a woman who opens her lips before the man does, for she may be a harlot or the biblical seductive Jezebel.

But sometimes they are not all that immoral; they only want to be honest with their feelings. Instead of staying back to wait for the blue moon to show up, they get out of their shells and awaken the pretenders and kill joys. They can't afford to be the unfortunate cat waiting for the rat that will never come.

Men know who they would love to date or marry. The distinction between the woman you love and the one who loves you is that the latter is most likely to make the first step yet you don't love her.

That's why you will turn down her attempts to seduce you. Decent women won't risk getting such insults. Instead they resort to a few signals and punctuate them with prayers that the recipient makes a decision in their favour.

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