Many things keep running in the hd of a man who is in love and looking forward to marriage. Sometimes a man gets so confused as to what to say to assure her that he intends to marry her.

Many men actually go ahead and buy some cheap ring, then same old stunt of 'please will you marry me?' bullshit! It is hard to make out what a woman really thinks. This is because they don't make sense at all....all the time.

Look around you when you are in a taxi, bar, a traffic jam and all you see are grown up women looking preoccupied in thought. What rings in that head of hers is 'a man i can call mine'. I have also been informed by text that men are talking forever to commit. And this is weighing heavily on the sisters.
 
In most cases, today's woman and indeed the typical Kampala woman will and can afford to buy herself an expensive ring and call shots most of the time. Women think (understandably) men are incapable of buying really good stuff. So be easy coz she got it all under control.

On a good day a man can surely buy that ring even before he is sure she is sure about him. This is because rings and what they denote have been abused over time. Singles, married, divorced, students, widows and indeed everyone is wearing them and the list includes 'bafere'.

This therefore means there is no way a smart chic will take your 'ring talk' seriously. she also may not like the ring you bought her though naturally she will not decline to take it but be informed that she will not have it.
 
She will either replace it with her own fancy ring - full with a precious stone on it. So what exactly has replaced this 'ring' proposal? Being the chap not to mince words, I will tell you what, forget the ring. Today's woman will so love it when you ask her for a baby.

Hell no! Don't ask her for the baby - just give her one. And say you want her to be the mother of your babies. Period! Many women I talked to regarding this issue said they didn't give a rat's butt about engagement rings.

According to them, the only measure of seriousness in a guy is when he surrenders himself to responsibility - yes.. it takes a real man to surrender (read Settle) down with a woman.

Chances are that even if you have been with her for such a long time, she knows you are just a statistic, she hasn't been taking you seriously anyways. It is only until you start initiating baby talk that she will for sure start seeing you in a different mature light.
 
However, don't go on asking every woman to carry your baby. Many of them think you are insane so already. Secondly I should also expect you to ask for the baby and be ready to parent one (not fathering one).

Men have to up the ante if they are to get really good stuff women - the home maker type. Above all, my sisters should also gauge what type of man she would so willingly carry her baby....not just 'fwaaaa' like that.

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