The sexperts call it a sex rut, for me as a layman I like looking at it as a point of no return, this is because most of the time, few couples can go back to the pre rut era! Before I go to what causes this rut thing, perhaps a simple definition can do. A sex rut is a situation where you are in a relationship and somehow you both feel that sex is hard labor plus no reward (with your partner).

But when you are with another person everything becomes okay.There are many reasons that lead to couples finding themselves in this unenviable situation, but that is not the topic today but  some of the reasons, could either be emotional, physical or psychological, and all of these are characterized by one thing……frustrations!

I sometimes watch with distaste a programme called "Abanonya" literally translated as those seeking for love on a local TV channel called Bukedde. I view this programme, where these love seekers come out to describe what they claim they desire in  a partner they are seeking out for, as some kind of a joke.

Why, because in all sincerity I really wonder whether these people ever even get any quality partners to talk of. This is mainly because of the way they present them selves, if it was a job CV and these love seekers were looking for employment, I am sure they would die searching.

We have all been both philanthropists and beneficiaries of this wonderful act at one time or another. Historically, I think there is only one person who has been accused of misusing a kiss, and that is Judas Iscariot.

So what really  is in a kiss?  A kiss is defined as a touch or caress with the lips as a sign of love, affection, or greeting. People have been seen kissing others, objects and sometimes giving "flying kiss". So, whatever your kiss may be, its most likely to be covered up in the above three categories ; It will either be for  love, affection or a  greeting.  

I have this religious newsletter that I keep receiving on my email almost every day, this newsletter has so much advise concerning relationships such that I sometimes feel tempted to just copy and paste it for my readers.

This week there was this article about marriage, that has weighted down my temptation and I have decided to edit slightly and share it with you this wisdom that is pregnant with simple advice.-