The margin between these two is very slim though both of them are a people to be avoided. Nevertheless one is more dangerous than the other.

Whereas to a flirt the thrill is in playing with a particular person's emotions while pretending that they are interested in them while not, to a seducer everything is done with the exclusive aim of having sex!

Flirting and seducing is not a sphere of only the male species; women too are known to be great flirts/seducers and have often left behind them a long line of heart breaks. Here are some of the signs that you should always be on the look out for when faced with any of these two kinds.

FLIRT
The Flirt company
The people who flirt have one thing in common and that is, they always do this in the company of their partners, when their partners are around or when in places that they know that you won't be free or have a chance to go far with them. This kind get their thrill in making other people yearn or hanker for them.

They get interested in first exciting and then leaving their admirers hanging; this is too irresistible for them. It is a way that they get assurance that they are attractive and are in control of everything.

Limited contact
When it comes to actual conversation, the flirt rarely invades your private space (a meter from you). Eye contact is their best ammunition and from a mischievous wink to a wave of the hand or a tapping (lightly on the shoulder or hand) as they pass by you, is always the farthest they go. They will often not ask for your contacts after your first encounter.

Shyness
It's believed that most flirts are just seducers who have not been upgraded and they fear most being the subject of rejection. But as time goes by they turn from flirts to seducers.

It's easier to identify a seducer than to identify a flirt because most of the time, someone can have just friendly intentions that can be confused for flirting but for a seducer, there are many signs such as:-

SEDUCER
Always alone
One way to best identify a seducer is that they are always alone. This is because much as they will always be likely to come alone to a venue, they tend to leave there in the company of a prey firmly clamped in their talons.

Every time they approach a potential prey their aim is always to hook up for sex! After a short while of getting to know each other, they will suggest that you go to a private place so that you could talk undisturbed. 

Sweet talkers
One might wonder how these people manage to bed their prey after only a short time of knowing them. The answer lies in their ability to say the right words at the right time.

They are generally good sweet-talkers, are eloquent, smart in appearance and adorn expensive attires. They present themselves as a trophy up for grabs; in short, they are just too good to be true.

Invade your space
Their main aim is to have sex and sex needs no space between players. That's why even if they are strangers to you, they will immediately invade your space; they will ask for a hug even before they introduce themselves and will work towards breaking that private space any moment they get a chance. Have you ever had a stranger wanting to whisper something in your ear? That was a seducer who was just testing how well you guard your private area.

Watch body language
Seducers are masters at making you relax when you are with them. They will constantly touch you. Another thing is that their eyes will not settle only on you but will roam the environs possibly looking for softer targets than you. Meanwhile, they will be oozing lots of confidence.

Word sex
After how long should the word sex appear? Seducers are people who believe in getting to the point as quickly as possible. They will bring sexual connotations and will try to drag you into discussing a topic on sex as soon as possible; even their compliment of you will go something like "you are very sexy!" bang!

There is the word "sex." Then they will watch your reaction before they comment on the sexiness of something else around. The moment he/she introduces the idea of sex in your conscience, then it will be time to cultivate it. If you are at a party, such people will encourage you to have more drinks, obviously for the simple reason that your guards will be more lowered if you are not in your rightful senses.

The last part and trick is that they will try to make you feel special. As a parting line, here is an example: A lady at a party sat between a politician and a seducer and this is what she said, "When I left the dining room after sitting next to the politician, I thought he was the cleverest man in world. But, after sitting next to the seducer, I thought I was the cleverest woman in the world."

By Kim Kajumba