As I was growing up, I was taught that my parent's bedroom was out of bounds to all of us. We used to see it as a privilege just being told to "come in" and even still, we always stopped at the door, in fact we came to respect and fear any visitor who happened to come and my mother invites her to her bedroom. 

The truth of the matter is that bedrooms are supposed to be treated with respect and sacredness. This will help you to not only, have a sanctuary for yourself but also it can be the reason why your sex life makes an about turn. How do you do this? Some tips; 

 

As human beings, we have the ability to exalt anything to holiness level, even when they mean nothing to the rest of us, there are some people who take a cow as a sacred thing and worship it, others think, monkeys, snakes, cities (Mecca and Jerusalem) and many other things are sacred. 

People with such beliefs would die before they do anything disrespectful to whatsoever they believe is sacred. Likewise, then why not your bedroom? 

Should you elevate your bedroom to holiness level then most of your problems (both sexually and privately) will just disappear! 

There is a friend of mine who used to say that his bedroom is a "workshop of god" if it's because of recreation (enjoyment) or recreating (making babies), am yet to find out!

The moment you step into your bedroom is the moment you should start being sexy for your lover and this moment should be taken as a step to another world (fantasy, romantic, love world). 

Barricade the rest of the world from intruding into this special world that you have created for just you and your partner. Shutting out the outside world does not only mean people, it includes not discussing other issues that are not personal, leave work, and other topics at the door way and pick them up the moment you step out of your bedroom!

Creating life long memories does not need fireworks and all that crazy hullabaloos that is usually associated with funfair. 

Sometimes a weekend locked in your bedroom could be the most romantic thing you have ever had and it could turn out to be a story to narrate to your grandchildren.

You don't have to tear your house down with mega budget, you can change your bedroom with even colour (repaint with romantic colours), clear the junk, clean up, throw away all that you don't need, all this can be done to your  unique style as a couple. 

And it absolutely must inspire romance and intimacy. another  simple way of bringing that romantic feel to your bedroom is by repositioning the furniture ,the good thing with this is that anytime you change the furniture from their former place, the room gets a new fresh look, and as they say" You are limited only by your creativity".

 

Recently I was inquiring from a friend of mine about mattresses; she told me that she has had the same bed for over a dozen years! 

Now you can imagine how inviting could her bedroom really  be? same bed, mattress, and same position, which is a crime, you should try out new designs ,if it's the head boards, then change to frame bed. 

The point is to make your bed the star of the room, the idea is to make the bed your masterpiece, warm and inviting for you and your partner. 

Clever Lighting can make your bedroom sexier. Setting up dim lights bulbs or simply covering the bulbs with coloured clothes or colour shades over lamps can have effects that create a more romantic atmosphere. 

Lighting the room with Candles is another way to change the lighting and set the scene for love. Curtains or blinds have a way of regulating light into your room, find out what kind suits you most. 

One thing that I have found out is that it's almost impossible to change lighting without having bedside lamps, the good news is that they are not that expensive and you will only have to change the bulbs to get a different colour.

It doesn't help even if the room is set in heaven and you are not acting or being romantic yourself, occasionally let your partner get awed by the roses on the floor of your bedroom and the bed, bring in fresh flowers at the bedside, bring lunch, breakfast of dinner in bed occasionally. 

You don't need to wait for a special occasion. Photos of you together could be a plus and a reminder of good times, hang them and they could always be a wonder sight!