Men the world over are accused of being an insensitive cheating specie, almost all women will tell you how they had this wonderful thing going till the man spoilt it.

Its true men are more advertures, to an extent that when Bill Clinton cheated on Hillary some scientist brought evidence that he was not to be blamed but the genes are!

I say with authority that 90% of the times the problems are caused by women themselves, so how do you keep your man, there is nothing so spectacular, but just small changes will do, try some suggestions here;

Be mysterious
Some years ago, I was talking to my grandfather and he told me that though they have stayed for over five decades together with my grandmother, he has failed to figure what she really is.

This mystery I believe is what has kept her still admired and loved by my grand dad. Leave your man yearning. Men, being natural hunters, they usually get bored whenever there is nothing more to explore and discover.

There are two cardinal mistakes ladies make, one is by being too familiar and two, opening everything and all to their partners, and this includes even their dirty past.

Rush
One thing that has future repercussions beyond our imagination is the fact that most of the times we rush into relationships without first studying each other.

This on one hand shows that one is needy, and this always is a coat that beneath are layers of desperation and often poor leftovers of a partner. Here there is a very important question, how long should one take before becoming serious?

This is a question that depends on what you know of your potential partner, if you got acquaintance through friends and family, it's understandable for the period to be relatively shorter, but if it's a matter of self hunting and self discovery, then a period of over a year is needed before moving in together. Learn to control your emotions.

Always a lady
Face whatsoever situation called upon you as a lady, there are things that your man will never forgive you if you do them. Things like foul language and tantrums disclose your female inadequacies.

Although there is female emancipation this doesn't mean that you should throw away the coolness and etiquette of being feminine, no matter what the trend, there is absolutely nothing more appealing to a male's ego than a woman behaving like a woman (delicately)!

Unleash yourself
Run your own life, women have been given a gift by nature of being multi-purpose, but instead of using this gift to be more independent, they use it to get more stuck to the men in their lives, its no wonder that even powerful women will still use the name of their husbands.

I know of one vice president who adapted the name of a husband, and even after their separation the name refused to go away! Personal management is smart, so try and separate your life from the life of your man, know when to intermingle your lives and when to let one life flow on a different path. This includes, everything, social and most important financial life.

Understand the male ego
The imprints that parents put on their young sons never ever fade away, infact it keeps on growing bigger and larger, most of the times its nothing significant but just male chauvinism.
When you are in a relationship sometimes its important to lay down a bit, (instead of confrontation) especially when you are not alone, this is because whenever a man feels challenged and dared they often do things that they would not do normally.

So know exactly when to pamper that ego, when to stand by it and when to resist it, and you have conquered that man that harbors it.
 
Up your sex game
Men have genes that somehow make them more active than the female genes, this is a study that not only was done on humans but even mice, baboons, etc and they all gave the same results.

So one department that ladies should try and perfect is the sex department. Ladies should know that men use all their faculties on sex, so its important for the sisters to take advantage of this, perfect bedroom, gymnasium, smell good, watch out for that extra weight and all that is sexy.

The big secret
Its an open secret that the shortest short-cut to a man's heart is through the stomach, many ladies tend to dismiss this notion and concentrate on other things, but this is a formula that has defied time and generations.

So dear sister, if you don't cook for your husband, don't be surprised next time when you catch him pants down with the cook! blog comments powered by Disqus

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